My parents birth stories....
The birth of Caleb
felt my first surge at just after 3pm, however was not aware that was
what it was as it was a completely different feeling to when I had
Robyn, this time I was feeling more of a pressure feeling. They were
very frequent from the start, coming every five minutes. I listened to
my affirmations disc for a while whilst doing my breathing and it seemed
to make it more bearable and comfortable.
4pm my husband suggested ringing
the midwives, however I was still unsure that this was 'it' and so
brushed his suggestion off. He then decided he would take Robyn to my
Mums just in case it was the start of something. He left the house at
4.20 telling me that if he wasnt back by 5 I was to ring the midwife just to see what they say.
then paid a visit to the toilet, the pressure getting more intense and a
lot more frequent. It was whilst on the toilet I realised my waters had broken and felt
at ease being sat on the toilet so this is where I stayed!
4.50 my sister rang the midwife who said they would send someone round
(I was scheduled in for a homebirth). At 4.55 my husband returned home
and began to get ready to fill the birthing pool. It was at this point I
screamed to him it was too late and he was going to have to deliver the
baby as I could
feel him coming!
Using my breathing
techniques Caleb entered the world at 5.10! Five minutes later the
paramedic turned up, and a further five minutes later the midwives
Caleb is totally chilled out, and as with Robyn I believe this is down to the calm way he was born.
Thank you again for all your help!
Sarah, Clint, Robyn and Caleb, Derby Xx
The birth of Eden (NATURAL BREACH BIRTH!!!)
It was a
really enjoyable experience and i'm so glad that I found hypnobirthing-
although everything didn't go quite as we had planned I wouldn't change a
out the day before her due date that she was breech again, so they booked me in
for a few days time to try and turn her and if not for a c-section, we were
told to phone in if my waters broke or I felt any surges before that day.
the next day I started to feel mild surges, we gave the hospital a call and
they said to come in when my surges were fifteen minutes apart. My
partner and I went to a party then when they were coming every ten minutes we
left the party and went to the hospital.
kept in all night strapped to a monitor, and continued having surges all night
and all of the next day. My mum and James
came to keep me company as by this time I was BORED! The doctor came to see me
and told me that the baby's bottom was fully engaged and there would be no way
of turning her so I would be having a c-section that night at 6:15pm. James
left for a while, Mum stayed with me reading her book while I slept and listed
to good old Marie!
I was getting more and more uncomfortable (I wasn’t on the labour ward, lots of
other patients = very hard to relax) I had three surges within 4 minutes, I was
feeling a lot of pressure in my lower back and at this point I told my mum that
I was definitely in the transitional phase and that she should probably call
the midwife! I knew it wouldn't be long before I would be taken to theatre but
thought it best to give her a call anyway.
rushed down in a wheelchair and examined in the delivery room, at this point I knew she was coming as I
felt like I wanted to push, turns out i was 8cm dilated! I heard the doctor say "i'm calling it a
red light get her into theatre!" it was all very surreal and looking back
must have been really funny! We entered theatre at 6:17 pm.
into theatre, the breathing techniques were AMAZING at this
point, and only three strong pushes and she was out, I can't imagine how hard
it would have been if I hadn't been practising that breathing!
out folded in half, at 6:33 pm with her feet up by her ears! My mum got to hold
her while I was being stitched up (they had to make a cut) and then I got a
natural birth I wanted and no pain relief!
all so pleased everything went so well, and I can't thank you enough for all
the help you gave us through the whole process! i'm so glad I took the
James and Eden, Derby x
The birth of Emmeline
We are a family of 4. Emmeline was born on Wednesday 20th July at 10pm. The
birth went really well. I was able to use the breathing from the Hypnobirthing
to help me and Jim was also much more able to help.
We had a really great midwife called Sue who
was very knowledgeable regarding hypnobirthing and the
breathing. The labour itself was very fast (4hr) and that in itself
was challenging. However, I only used gas and air and Emmy was
born with no intervention. I had no stitches and am recovering quickly. This
has made it much easier to breast feed and also look after my 2 year old!
I feel much more positive about the birth experience this time. Thanks for all your help
Linzi, James, Sammy and
The birth of Hollie
went into labour at 2am, I did my surge breathing thru the
contractions but couldnt get back to sleep. We went to hospital, where I
was examined at 7am. I was 4-5cm but had thick meconium so had to
go onto consultant led care and wouldn’t be able to have my pool birth.
felt quite sad that all my birth plan and 'training' would go out of
the window as there was talk of rapid induction even c section.
However, it was agreed if I continued to have
good contractions and baby’s heart rate was good I would be left for a
continued to do my breathing and she even asked Barry if I was always
calm, they were going to re-examine me at 10.30 am.
Around 9.30 the surges became really strong and I felt that she was
really low and something was happening and had the urge to push. When I was
examined I was fully dilated. The
consultant wanted her to be delivered quickly so I was asked to push. Nothing happened as she wasn’t quite ready to
be born and I got very tired, I just wanted to breathe through them, so in the
end we agreed to try a suction cap rather than forceps, induction or c-section
but I would have to push harder.
Unfortunately, at this point the fear-tension-pain cycle started. I thought they would offer me some pain
relief – they didn’t, and I didn’t ask. The cap was really unpleasant but she
came out in 3 contractions and was placed on me as soon as the paediatrician
had checked her over. She is beautiful!
Both the doctor and midwife couldnt believe how calm I was,
especially with the last bit, Barry then told them about the hypnobirthing
and the midwife said she thought I must have been doing something like that. That
made me up no end, even though I thought it wouldnt be very
helpful in the end it certainly was!!
Thank you so much Ellena
Angie, Barry and of course little Hollie. Belper
My birth storie
The arrival of Sean
Sean was born early at 36 weeks, weighing 4lb 11oz. His arrival was a complete surprise – especially when my waters broke at lunchtime in the office! I was discharged from hospital as my labour had not yet started.
At 5pm we finally made it back to our home town (25 mile drive) – and hit the rush hour traffic! By this point my labour had progressed and I really needed to walk about, but of course couldn’t and needed to keep the seat belt on so I was fairly uncomfortable. Fortunately, our drive home didn’t last much longer.
Once we got home, things improved dramatically. I instantly felt more relaxed and happier as I could take some clothes off and get comfortable, the pain gradually started to subside. Its amazing the effect comfortable surroundings has. He spoke to the hospital. I then had a bath and shower together whilst he carried out light touch massage, which took me fully into relaxation. Which was such an amazing state!
My partner realised my labour was moving along quickly and stated I needed to get dressed and go to the hospital. I was less than co-operative as I was comfortable, had an amazing urge to go to the toilet and really didn’t want to go anywhere. He finally persuaded me and we left home around 6.45pm.
We arrived at the maternity unit at 7pm and was seen by a triage midwife. She declared to my partner the “baby will be here soon” and we went around to the delivery suite. Sean was born at 7.34pm, with my knickers still around my ankles!
I had such an amazing labour, despite all the unusual circumstances. The whole thing lasted 4.5 hours from my first surge without the need for pain relief, including gas and air.
We had a natural third stage.
The arrival of Abigail
Abigail decided to make an appearance at home on her due date, weighing 7lb 10oz.
I had been having practice surges for a few weeks, so when these woke me around 2am on her birth date I wasn't particularly surprised. However, being so large by this point I couldnt get comfortable again in bed so rather than risk waking Sean I came downstairs, watched some TV and dozed on the sofa, with the viewpoint if they were still there when I woke up then I would alert my husband (the same philosophy I had had for the last few weeks).
At 4.45am I woke and they were still there, so I went back upstairs and woke my husband up. I think that was the release I needed! I went from telling him I wasnt sure to definitely being in labour! My surges were coming every five minutes so he phoned the midwife and put his mum on alert to collect Sean when he woke. During the time between these calls and his mum and the midwife arriving my surges had intensified and were lasting around a minute every minute. Once again light touch massage was my hero with my husband not allowed to stop! At 6.15am with Sean safely out of the way the midwife was allowed to examine me. I was 9cm!! A discussion was held regarding the birth pool but we decided with the speed of labour it would remain in its box unless hubby could blow it up and fill it one handed whilst maintaining the massage.
At 6.45am the second midwife arrived. I continued to labour. Discussions were held regarding breaking my waters which were still in tact. It was decided against. The midwives as requested were very "hands off" during my labour allowing me to just be and to help me to change position if I needed. Due to the intensity I did struggle to remain calm, however, with lots of all round encouragement and my continued mental mantra "jaws relaxed, hands relaxed" my labour continued nicely and at all times remained completely bearable.
At 7.04am my waters finally broke, Abigail rushed into the world at 7.10am. We waited for the cord to stop pulsating, my husband cut the cord and we had a natural third stage.
The arrival of Florence
Florence arrived 5 days past her EDD and was delivered at home as planned. However, we didnt get to use the birth pool again despite it being set up in our conservatory from 37 weeks as my labour was fast and they had sent the wrong liner....
I woke around 1am on the Saturday morning and couldnt get comfortable, so I listened to my relaxation CD and drifted back off to sleep. About 2.30 I woke up and could no longer get comfortable to the CD, so I went for a walk around the house and read my book for a bit. Eventually I decided it may be at the start of labour so got the liner out of its packet and tried to fit it to the pool. It was probably around 3am by this point. I couldnt concentrate on the liner and had to keep walking around the house. Eventually I woke my husband as I thought if I want to use this pool I need some help. He realised straight away I was in labour and got up. It was around 3.40am by this point. He faffed with the liner for a bit before giving up and filled the pool without a liner. By this point I decided I needed him with me full time giving light touch massage and helping me with my breathing. He also phoned for the MW. I was a bit worried about this as I didnt want the MW arriving to early, however, he decided it was best to get them here earlier rather than later especially given my previous fast labours. We continued to labour whilst waiting for the MW, I walked while he massaged and helped with the breathing. We were also altering the pool temperature. The MW arrived at 4.12am, we greeted her and went upstairs to alter the pool temperature again. Just as we were coming downstairs I knew something was happening and decided I had to either get downstairs NOW or give birth at the top of the stairs and maybe wake our two other sleeping children. So I gathered myself and ran down the stairs. Had a quick conversation with the MW to say she could examine me but I couldnt lay down and left her and Rob discussing the pro's and con's of that statement. She did a quick doppler check on the baby. My waters then popped and baby emerged on one birth breath while standing with my knickers still on at 4.20am. The MW stated she had never seen someone run down a flight of stairs two minutes before the baby arrived! The MW was here for 8 minutes and Rob up for 40 in total.
Due to the speed of my labour it was again very intense but with a great birth partner and all the HB techniques bareable and manageable at all times. So our third completely natural labour with zero pain relief not even so much as a paracetamol.
We had a natural third stage, left the cord pulsating and she was delivered straight into my arms.
Sean got up at 5am to find Florence and I sitting on the sofa as if "Mr Tesco's" had delivered her overnight and Abigail got up at 5.30 am. Perfect way to complete our family.